I was, but its different for everyone.
If you have been bullied before it will be hard to gain popular status.
Do you have any friends? If you do you just need to use them as a tool, when your in class with people you would like to impress to gain popularity, you need to look like your having a great time with them and you need to be loud but not too loud that you will get in trouble with the teacher. Act like nothing in the world can bother you, 24.7 it will impress them.
Never rely on the popular crowd.
If you dont have friends, you need to gain some, use the same techniques as above to gain friends.
Make sure you ALWAYS sit next to some in class, and talk to them attempt to make them laugh and act confident but try to make the confident look easy and flawless.
Take your time with all this, if you do it gradual it will boost your confidence like mad and it wont matter how popular you are.
You just need to enjoy highschool, make the most of it and gain as many friends as possible because when your comfortable at school you will work better.
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