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Old 06-18-2008
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Default What are your tips on how to become populor in high school?

im like the most unpopulor kid in my class literally and its a big class so i desperatly need some advise thanks
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just be yourself. Don't try and be someone your not. If people don't like you for you then they aren't worth knowing
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I was, but its different for everyone.
If you have been bullied before it will be hard to gain popular status.
Do you have any friends? If you do you just need to use them as a tool, when your in class with people you would like to impress to gain popularity, you need to look like your having a great time with them and you need to be loud but not too loud that you will get in trouble with the teacher. Act like nothing in the world can bother you, 24.7 it will impress them.
Never rely on the popular crowd.
If you dont have friends, you need to gain some, use the same techniques as above to gain friends.
Make sure you ALWAYS sit next to some in class, and talk to them attempt to make them laugh and act confident but try to make the confident look easy and flawless.
Take your time with all this, if you do it gradual it will boost your confidence like mad and it wont matter how popular you are.
You just need to enjoy highschool, make the most of it and gain as many friends as possible because when your comfortable at school you will work better.
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Give everyone £10 each week - or$20 if you are a Colonial.
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take up a sport with other class members.
build some muscle get more attractive.
talk about things tht pplyour age would consider cool maybe sexual experiences even if you have to make them up or incodents that occured when you were drunk.
act like u dnt give a sh1t about your grades.
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I'm all for being yourself but I reckon this isn't what you want to hear now.

I myself went through an awkward phase in high school trying to be true to myself and being socially accepted and what I figured out is simple. It's a sad truth but it's a reality....we are initially judged by our looks. If you want to be socially accepted, you have to look INCREDIBLE!

1)Start by hitting the gym and get lean. It's amazing how people treat you differently. You shouldn't count on those people as your friends but at least they'll make your life easier and stop harassing you.

2) Don't be over-friendly. Be polite, courteous but don't impose yourself on people as it'll turn them off. Once you get to make true friends, no matter how hyperactive or weird you seem to them, they'll stick by you because they know how truly amazing you are.

4) YOUR CLOTHES! I cannot stress how a wardrobe transformation makes a huge difference. No eccentric outfits, please!

3) Get actively involved into sports! Not only will everybody want to be your "friend" but it'll help you stay in shape, make you feel better about yourself (endorphins release will do that to you) and girls will be all over you.

Best of luck and remember that high school is just a phase so make sure that academics comes first! Studying doesn't make you a geek...
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You poor thing!

What makes you think you're unpopular - is it just because the 'popular' kids don't hang around with you, or do people actually hate you?

It could be just things in common - eg if you're studious it maky be more difficult to make friends with other studious people, especially if you/they are shy.

Could it be your attitude - when people talk to you are you really shy or quiet? It could come across as stand offish.

Try seeking out people similar to you, and talking to them in lunch line or PE. Perhaps get some sweets and share around?
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