Does he love me or just play games with me?

[Amber A]

I was dating a guy for about 3 months. We was going out having a great fun he was treating me like a princess,spoiling me.He sent me 700 text for that time. But he was sending me so mixed singnals. On a few ocasions he told me we are only friends( but we are kissing and huging and caressing) another time he was asking me if he ask me to get married for him and have his kids what i would answer. Then i asked him what exactly he wants he he said friendship,company and possibily relationship.After that conversation he cooled off and didnt contcat with me as much as before,Recently we have met and he asked me to go out togetheragain for a day.But he wasnt sure if heworks at the day i was free 7 can let me know late the eve before. I wasnt happy and didnt agree. Next day i sent him text saying we better not seeing each other anymore.But since then he is sending texts how sad is he and trying to change my mind and go out with him again. Now I ask does he love me or just play games

[Chuck B]

He's hangin when it's slow and tryin to upgrade.

Stick around if you don't mind being used for back-up.

[rachel c]

he sounds really confused. i think on some level he likes you as more than a friend, but then he also wants to have a simple friend-relationship with you. but overall he just seems afraid to lose you either as a friend or more than that. you need to sit down with him in person and put it right out there. ask him what he really wants. friends or more? if he plays more games and says more confusing things, tell him you can't be anything to a person who doesn't know what he wants. good luck!

[Not so girly]

okay tell him to make up his mind and that you can find someone else if he doesnt want to be with you. He has to make up his mind instead of just playing games. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 monthes and we have a healthy relationship what he is doing is unhealthy and hurtfull tell him this. Tell him he needs to be faitful to you or hit the road. goodluck girl, you deserve better then him.

[Sonja B]

sounds like neither of you are communicating very well. i think he probably does have feelings for you, but until you too actually date seriously, you won't know where it goes. now, he made an effort to want to get together and you faulted him for not knowing his schedule, while he is lame for not knowing his schedule, you are just as lame for not being a bit more understanding. can't say if he's playing games until you guys try to seriously date. it's a need more info type situation.

[hartinbabe]

He sounds like an enormous waste of time. The question isn't whether or not he "loves" you - I can tell you that he does NOT. The questions should be whether or not he is someone you want to spend your time with.

Sounds like it was merely infatuation, but I don't know the situation well enough. In my opinion, you are much better off without him. Why would he go back and forth like that? It's only been 3 months. Why say he wants to only be friends and then ask you if you would ever marry him?

Sounds like a loser times 10.

MOVE ON GIRL!