how do i tell my best pal her boyfriend is BAD news?

[erin l]

this first time i met ma pals bf i thought he was nice but as soon as she whent to the toilet he asked me for my number an told me he would dump her 4 me i told him no way and to get lost i tried to tell her and she just said i was jealous of him and her and went in the huff with me 4 ages and then the other day i saw him kissing a nother girl and i don't know how to tell her this because now she is turning suisidal

[?Bird?]

Woah, she's suicidal?

In that case, you should tell her parents so that they can find her a therapist.

[mom2008]

I think the best thing you could do be there for your friend for emotional support. If she considering sucide reach and get her help for her. Don't focus on her bf being a loser, once she gets her emotional state together trust me she will learn. You can see earlier in this relationship she was angry bcuz you told her about him, so it would triple with emotions running so high. I would focus on doing things with her and suggesting she talks to some1 for help with all the emotions she is feeling. Just provide her with a shoulder to cry on and a ear to listen. Sometimes as friends it is better to listen than talk. Remind your friend how beautiful she is, and focus on boosting her self esteem. Right now she needs you more than ever as a friend