My partner spends hours each day chatting on the net?

[Jon]

Hi there, recently I entered into a civil-partnership with my BF from Algeria. He is a sweet man but has this obsession with chatting to men on gay-sites for hours on end, (joking, chatting he says) so much so that this now happens almost every night. At first I ignored this but now I have become angry and suspicious we spend little time together. When I mention this he always gets cross with me then we row about it. I end up apologising because i care so much about him and we went through hell to live together in this country.This week I went on the computer and found that some of these conversations had been logged, I looked at them to find explicit conversations and exchanges of mobile numbers (also how much he hates me and my jealousness) . In the last few days he has been acting distant and because it is Ramadan we have no physical contact.He has other friends from his country in London and he visits some weekends, I was always fine about this, now I am suspicious he is meeting other men for sex. If our partnership fails he will not get a visa to stay here in 2 years time, if I pretend all is well with his behaviour he will continue in this way. I am scared to challenge him because he gets angry and says I am jealous or over protective I love him very much and am hurting lots.. thanks for reading