PLEASE answer? ok - Ive got a great relationship with my bf. We've been together about 5 mths - hes never given me reason to not trust him - despite the fact he has his ex constantly ringing him and telling him she misses him. Because I love him so much I get very frightened and clingy - for example hes going out with the lads tonight - Im staying in, but I tried to make him feel bad by accusing him of not wanting to spend time with me etc - which resulted in him accusing me of being controlling and him threatening to walk. I cant explain it - I panic thinking of him out without me - in case his ex or someone else hits on him - hes assured me he'd never cheat - but I cant help myself. Ill be sick thinking of him out and drunk without me tonight. How can I get over this problem - Im beginning to think Im a psycho... PLEASE help me.

Relax chick he's with you because he likes you and enjoys being with you. Friday's are when lads go out act like kids and get very drunk. Buy a kebab and stumble home to our every waiting ladies. It's one of those laws. Just trust him or he will walk away from you. But if he cheats on you after this advice cut his cream crackers off. lol
Have a night out with the girls tonight. Just not at the same place or he will think your checking up on him.

CALM DOWN!!!
If you tell him how much your are afraid he'd leave you, that's what's going to happen. You really need to take your mind off your boyfriend - get on the phone immediately and arrange a night out with your girlfriends, or go to the movies - three movies in a row, or call your mom - that should keep you occupied till about Saturday morning.