my mother and father in laws are interfering to much. why?

[caraohara]

You need to let your partner know it's not ok with you...it's not going to be easy to change their habit of arriving every week and turning the key in YOUR door, if your partner is not willing to do anything then sadly there isn't a lot you can do, you could arrange not to be there when they come...or you could just except that it's only 3 hours once a week. You really need to talk this whole thing through with your partner..don't fight about it just talk and try make him understand how you feel.

[LillyC]

Let your husband know that your bothered by them having to have a key to your house. I mean they are not thieves...but how would they like it if you always came over their house once a week with the kids, and you also had a key and would let yourself in even if they weren't home. I would definitely change the locks and if they ask make sure your husband answers them, without putting you on the spot.

[Amazingwoo]

You need to tell your partner this is not ok with you.

One way to get your other half to stop his parents letting themselves in is to be "occupied" <cough cough> with your partner just before 7pm on a Thursday. I'm pretty certain that he won't want *that* to be interrupted!!!

You could always change the locks but that'd set you back £150 and chances are, he'll just get keys cut and hand them over....

[free_angel]

They were given this control by your partner who now needs to take that control back.