smack, hit, whatever you want to call it, it's never going to make a kid a better person, but neither will not smacking or hitting. you have to love and respect your children. listen to them, do what's in their best interest at all times, and love them unconditionally. you reach for a hot pot, your hand might get smacked. you mouth off to me in a very disrespectful way, you might get hit. coming home with a D should never get you hit, staying out past curfew, on the phone too long, etc. Those are things you deal with verbally. Schools should never "paddle"... no matter what.
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